The human man by design is structured for work, meaning he finds fulfillment in what he is able to do with his natural abilities be it intellectual or otherwise.
In a marriage relationship where there is primarily the husband and the wife, the understanding of each others primary role leads to a healthy and well nourished union. That being said, to get to the fullness out of the marriage relationship, understanding is key.
Every woman thus must understand to workings of the male man in order to properly harness and utilize the potentials for excellence in the family.
I therefore advise you give the following points are a serious thought and consideration if you must enjoy your marriage relationship (even if you are single - you really need to also give the under listed a good thinking)
Every male man craves:
1. A good wife, mother and home-maker:
The word good here simply means a woman of honesty, integrity and tender hearted approach and attitude to matters. My wife often tells me "you men are just big babies, needing attention constantly like new born babes" hey I guess she is right.
Do you dispute that? I guess not, who does not love to come home to an insensitive, nagging partner, with every minute passing like a spy crossing a minefield.
The point, every man loves a woman who can turn his dark day at the office into a beautiful one filled with love, peace and laughter. Do this and he'll literally give you the moon.
2. A Secured Wife:
Yep, no man wants to get involved with a woman who is ridden in inferiority complex - the core problem of bullies, rather he prefers that his partner be confident in herself and abilities as well as being sure in her thinking concerning her hubby's welfare.
The man would literally divulge every form of information to her because he knows she can be trusted.
Simply put, every man love a woman who's got his back covered.
3. An Encouraging Wife:
Everybody needs encouragement in life especially during times of trials and difficulties.
Every man loves his partner to understand his problems, failures and weakness and not ridicule or beguile him for his inabilities, rather to help him confront and conquer the obstacles that seem insurmountable with patient sensitivity.
Plainly, it is a plus to a woman who encourages her spouse to aspire for more - this fires him up letting him know that someone - his wife, still believes in him irrespective of the frustrations and challenges he's facing.
A word of caution to all performance driven women - Never Compare your Partner in any form to other men - it kills him (and you would not like the outcome, trust me)
4. An Intelligent yet humble Wife:
Men (the real men - not the chauvinistic, egocentric dudes) love the company of women who are knowledgeable yet willing to learn more. If you notice your hubby is loosing interest in your relationship, do a heart check and be true to yourself.
Check for the following:
a. Outside having sex and a candle light dinner, do you chat on other areas of life, like politics, economy, and the future of the nations' children?
b. When you talk do you communicate, or you just go on blabbing of one thing or the other?
c. Do you know what triggers your partners temper?
d. Do you know what he likes and dislikes?
e. Do you always want to talk about you, you and you?
If majority of your answer to the above questions were in the negative, then I sturdily advise you better develop yourself in the areas of your deficiency or else risk loosing the man as well as the relationship.
5. A Disciplined Wife:
A home kept in order is the kind of home every man desires. When the woman who is supposed to be in charge of keeping the home leaves it in disarray turns off not just the man but every person that comes to visit.
Understanding the importance of proper prioritization in addition to being able to follow through with it in the husband - wife family relationship is an added advantage to any woman who desires to keep her man.
6. A Matured Wife:
The ability to maintain a marriage relationship largely depends on how much of each party can bear the other. A man loves a woman (or wife) who is able to bear with him in times of difficulty.
Better still he adores any woman who is able to keep herself under control in the face of challenges.
Nagging and complaining endlessly puts of any man any day, so if you fall into the group of wives, girlfriends, ladies and women who nag with reckless abandon you had better change your attitude or experience the "you don't know what you have till its gone" fever.
I have a strong passion to see marriages happen and stay safe at all times thereby passing to our children virtues that could help change our society for the better!
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